The Oracle of Light

Helpful Things You Can Say to Grieving Parents

It can be difficult to know what to say when someone has lost a child. It's often easy to believe that our words are more likely to offend than comfort, to make a situation worse rather than better. We may not know what to say, but also know that the worst thing is to say nothing at all.

I recently asked the grieving mothers I have the honor to work with, if there are things people said to them that helped with their loss. that perhaps encouraged them or gave them hope during their time of deep sadness.

• You're in my prayers 
• I'll never get tired of hearing about your grief 
• Text me any time to let me know you're having a bad day
• We'll figure this out together 
• One of my favorite memories is... 
• Dinner is on me
• I'm thinking of you today 
• Can I help with anything?
• Is there anything I can do for your kids?

 

You can learn more or schedule a session at www.livealifeyoulove.org or email shauna@livealifeyoulove.org

The Growing Up in Heaven Program is now available at www.livealifeyoulove.org where you'll learn a proven, step-by-step process to connect with, and experience your child as they grow up in Heaven.

With love and blessings,

Shauna xo

© 2022 Shauna Domalain

5 Ways to Learn to Live Again After the Loss of a Child

After the loss of a child, you won’t ever “just get over it,” but you can move through your loss into a full life filled with meaning and hope. In this episode, Shauna will share the 5 ways that she personally learned to live again after the loss of her son, Jack...

 

1. Only be around positive people and situations 

2. Figure out what you don't want to do 

3. Everything is Figureoutable 

4. Think about how you'd like to reinvent your life 

5. You are not alone - calling on the spirit world to assist 

 

You can learn more or schedule a session at www.livealifeyoulove.org or email shauna@livealifeyoulove.org

The Growing Up in Heaven Program is now available at www.livealifeyoulove.org where you'll learn a proven, step-by-step process to connect with, and experience your child as they grow up in Heaven.

With love and blessings,

Shauna xo

© 2022 Shauna Domalain

 

 

 

 

 

Grief Dreams: Dreams That Occur After the Death of a Human or Animal, with Joshua Black, PhD.

In this episode of The Oracle of Light Podcast, we are joined by Joshua Black, PhD. He is a grief researcher, speaker, and host of the Grief Dreams Podcast.

His work focuses on dreams and continuing bonds after loss, including prenatal and pet loss. As one of the leading academic experts in grief dreams, which can be dreams of the deceased, Dr. Black has directed his efforts on raising awareness about this fascinating phenomenon through media interviews, in addition to speaking engagements and workshops. In addition to his website (Griefdreams.ca), you can find him on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and Clubhouse (@griefdreams).

Download the FREE Dream Builder Worksheet: https://www.griefdreams.ca/dream-builder-worksheet

Watch the Episode here: https://youtu.be/f9Qgfof5cVE

 

You can learn more or schedule a session at www.livealifeyoulove.org or email shauna@livealifeyoulove.org

The Growing Up in Heaven Program is now available at www.livealifeyoulove.org where you'll learn a proven, step-by-step process to connect with, and experience your child as they grow up in Heaven.

With love and blessings,

Shauna xo

© 2022 Shauna Domalain

When Other People Make you Wrong for Wanting to Connect with Your Child in Heaven

Oftentimes, when someone makes us wrong for something it's because they wouldn't choose it for themselves or they don't understand what you're going through. Fear also plays a huge role when someone makes you wrong for wanting to connect with your child on the other side. Fear of the unknown, fear of even more pain, and a fear that something bad will happen when you do connect. 

What I know for sure is that making the connection with my son, Jack, has helped me to heal and build a life that I love. When you connect into what is true for you, and allow your heart to guide you, the universe will work in magical ways to support, uplift and nurture you as you connect with your child on the other side. 

 

You can learn more or schedule a session at www.livealifeyoulove.org or email shauna@livealifeyoulove.org

The Growing Up in Heaven Program is now available at www.livealifeyoulove.org where you'll learn a proven, step-by-step process to connect with, and experience your child as they grow up in Heaven.

With love and blessings, Shauna xx

© 2022 Shauna Domalain

 

What to Say to Children After They Lose a Sibling

Losing a sibling can be a huge loss for a child. How a child reacts to their sibling dying will depend on their age, their personality and understanding, as well as their family situation. In this episode, learn what you can say to children after they have lost sibling. 

Some things you can say to a child are: 

• Encourage them to talk about feelings
• Be available to answer questions honestly
• Involve your child in planning the memorial or funeral 
• Help your child to forgive themselves
• Let them be a child and grieve however they need to 
• Let them be themselves
• Help your child to remember their sibling

You can learn more or schedule a session at www.livealifeyoulove.org or email shauna@livealifeyoulove.org

The Growing Up in Heaven Program is now available at www.livealifeyoulove.org where you'll learn a proven, step-by-step process to connect with, and experience your child as they grow up in Heaven.

With love and blessings, Shauna xx

© 2022 Shauna Domalain

 

 

3 Reasons Why You Are Not Connecting With Your Crossed Over Child and What to do About it.

In this episode, we are going to take a look at the 3 reasons why you may not be connecting with your crossed over child and what you can do about it. I know first hand how frustrating it can be to want so desperately to make that connection, but you are not able to. 

The 3 reasons are... 

1. You haven't fully grieved and mourned your loss 
2. You have a lower vibration and aren't able to connect 
3. You may be expecting the connection to look a certain way

I'll share a myriad of different ways that you can shift the energy in order to make the connection with your child on the other side to experience peace in your heart. 

 

You can learn more or schedule a session at www.livealifeyoulove.org or email shauna@livealifeyoulove.org

The Growing Up in Heaven Program is now available at www.livealifeyoulove.org where you'll learn a proven, step-by-step process to connect with, and experience your child as they grow up in Heaven.

With love and blessings, Shauna xx

© 2022 Shauna Domalain

 

Cremation Life Beads of Your Loved One

In this episode you'll meet Tracy Slobodian of Soul Essence Keepsakes. Tracy shares her passion for incorporating your loved one's ashes in her hand made Life Beads. 

“Life Beads were inspired by those I have loved… and still love that have sadly passed on.  In that love and respect, I found inspiration.  I wear my Life Beads and feel the strength and spirit of my loved ones and with that connection, I find peace and joy. Although I do not have their bodies here, their spirit certainly is uncompromised with me and we continue life’s journey together".

For ordering and more information: 

Facebook: Chartreuse Designs/ Soulessence | Facebook

Website: Memorial Jewelry & Cremation Ash Keepsakes - Soul Essence

Instagram: Memorial Jewelry Keepsakes (@soulessence_keepsakes) • Instagram photos and videos

 

 

 

You can learn more or schedule a session at www.livealifeyoulove.org or email shauna@livealifeyoulove.org

The Growing Up in Heaven Program is now available at www.livealifeyoulove.org where you'll learn a proven, step-by-step process to connect with, and experience your child as they grow up in Heaven.

With love and blessings, Shauna xx

© 2022 Shauna Domalain

It Does Get Easier After the Loss of a Child

One thing I know for sure is that I'm not the same person I was before I lost my son Jack. Something else I've learned is that over time it has gotten easier for me since he's been gone from the physical world. Jack would have been 9 this year and the early years after losing him literally brought me to my knees. In honoring my grief and mourning, I've become a more resilient, loving and stronger version of who I used to be. While I'll never forget my precocious Jack, his death is easier for me to hold as I navigate my life, while he grows up in Heaven. 

 

You can learn more or schedule a session at www.livealifeyoulove.org or email shauna@livealifeyoulove.org

The Growing Up in Heaven Program is now available at www.livealifeyoulove.org where you'll learn a proven, step-by-step process to connect with, and experience your child as they grow up in Heaven.

With love and blessings, Shauna xx

© 2022 Shauna Domalain